Fawad Dar gazes forlornly at dozens of profiles of women on the computer screen before him.
Alheyah says she is "looking for the one", Sweethearted29 is "ready for love" and Beautiful101 says, with simple optimism, "the search ends here".
Fawad sighs. His search for a future wife is far from over.
"I have e-mailed 426 girls and I have not met the right one yet," he says. "Either they rejected me or I rejected them. But I am still hopeful."
The 28-year-old call centre manager from Abu Dhabi is on a mission: to find someone to spend the rest of his life with as soon as possible.
To reach his goal, he has become one of thousands of young men and women in the UAE who are taking the initiative themselves by signing up to Muslim matrimonial websites.
In a society where ordinary dating websites are banned, the popularity of marital websites has exploded into a phenomenon.
Most Muslim communities frown on free mingling between the sexes and dating is forbidden. But where marriages were once arranged by parents, family friends or community-based matchmakers, sometimes with little interaction between the couple before their wedding day, an increasing number of those wanting to wed are voting with their keyboards and picking their partners themselves.
While internet dating has long been booming in the west, Muslims are just starting to tap into the idea that technology could replace the traditional means of relying on family members or old-fashioned marriage bureaux to track down potential spouses from their countries of origin.
Whether it is down to the escalating number of divorces - the UAE has one of the highest rates in the Muslim world - or the proliferation of eligible young singletons frustrated in their search for The One, dozens of websites have seen a flood of recruits from the region eager to meet a partner.
Since it began advertising its services in the UAE in April, SingleMuslim.com has already attracted 8,400 new members from the country.
And the longer-established Shaadi.com says of its 14 million members, nearly 127,000 UAE-based residents - including more than 43,000 Muslims - have signed up to its promise of a "superior matchmaking service".
The websites allow users to tailor their search to narrow down candidates according to looks, mother tongue, caste or religious sect and even adherence to halal restrictions.
Pakistan-born Fawad tried the traditional route first, allowing his parents to introduce him to prospective wives, but says it soon became apparent his family had different ideas about a suitable match.
He joined SingleMuslim two months ago and now spends up to two hours a day scouring the website for a prospective candidate but says he is still looking: "I got replies from about 200 and asked for pictures of about 20 girls but rejected quite a few on the basis of their photos.
"There were a few of them up to what I was looking for but they were not interested. More than 75 per cent of girls are looking for a guy who does not have a beard. My preference is religious girls and I am looking for someone European whose family is from the Punjab or Kashmir so she will be able to mix better with my family.
"One was up to the mark. We are still communicating but I am not sure if it will work as the way we think about religion is different.
"My parents want me to get married to someone in Pakistan but I want a wife from Europe who can understand me better, drive a car and be independent.
"Pakistani girls are shy and don't like to go out alone. Even though I have not met my match yet, there are a lot of single professionals here away from their families and I am positive I will find someone."
For Saqib, 38, a British-born engineer of Pakistani origin, now living in Dubai, the search has ended. He joined the website after his disastrous first marriage arranged by his parents when he was 19 years old ended in divorce.
Within days of signing up in June, he spotted Amber, 29, a convert to Islam. After a brief flurry of e-mails, he proposed at their second meeting and bought a Dh6,000 (US$1,600) engagement ring on their third.
Saqib, whose name has been changed, said: "For me, this is my first love marriage. It is like a dream. Because of the way my first marriage ended, my parents were perfectly happy for me to find someone of my own accord.
"I live in Dubai and do not have a big social network. The Muslim community here is more reserved and conservative and people usually go back to their home countries to marry.
"I liked Amber from the first second I saw her online - she was just perfect. Then when we met, I was taken by her passion for Islam.
"We felt very strongly about each other so on the second day I said: 'Why don't we just get married?' It was the best decision of my life."
But for single women joining matrimonial websites, there is the added contention of getting approval from conservative parents, who may frown on the idea of their daughters taking it upon themselves to search for a husband.
The numbers signing up to Muslim matrimonial websites are still heavily weighted toward men with an average of at least two to every woman while many female users refrain from using photos on their profiles, preferring to make contact with anyone interested before sending an image.
Adeem Younis, the founder of UK-based SingleMuslim, which has 370,000 members worldwide, believes he has the answer: involving the whole family in the decision-making process.
"The site is family-inclusive, which means parents can register to look on behalf of their children, as well as uncles, aunts, brothers and sisters," he says.
"In some cases, there are families who do not know. The only resistance we have met is from people who do not understand what the internet is for."
With more young men and women moving away from their home towns to study or pursue their careers, the traditional set-up of a local community where you could be living next door to your future spouse is no longer working, he says.
"There has been a shift in what people are looking for in a marriage partner," he says. "Back in the old days, you might have been expected to marry someone from your country of origin but that can lead to a conflict of cultures. People have different expectations now and plans for their lives.
"There are a lot of people who are searching and desperate to get married but they do not have the same network of family and friends anymore."
That certainly seems to be the case in the UAE, which has the highest number of new members signing up to SingleMuslim of any Middle Eastern country while it is the fourth highest-ranking in the world after the UK, the US and Pakistan.
On average, 45 men and women join every day, accounting for 10 per cent of new clients worldwide. Most are aged between 22 and 27 with men outnumbering women three to one, even though women get to sign up for free.
Gunjan Sinha, of Shaadi.com, where 34 per cent of members in the UAE are Muslim, says: "Marriage is now more of a personal choice with just the immediate family involved in the process. The concept of joint families is slowly eroding and we are seeing the rise of nuclear families as people move away from their home towns in search of a better career.
"In the absence of a strong social network to fall back on, people are moving to other forms of connecting and communication. The internet takes away the geographical and spatial boundaries and limitations that traditional matchmaking suffers from, so one can meet one's prospective life partner in Mumbai while sitting in Seattle."
Not everyone is a happy surfer, however. Nabila Usman, 23, who runs a consultancy firm in Dubai, signed up to several Muslim marriage websites but deleted her profile after being bombarded with inappropriate messages from men.
"I was getting five messages a day. One guy in particular kept demanding I send a photo, then told me not to waste his time when I refused," she says. "Another girl I know was about to get married to someone she met online, then found out he had been married before and lied about his nationality."
Mr Younis says any unwanted harassment can be avoided by reporting offenders to the website's managers, who have a zero tolerance policy and will ban them: "The website is strictly for people who want to get married. We recommend vetting a person's credentials by going to meet their family and visiting their local mosque to get references."
Ms Sinha adds: "Shaadi.com is a serious website meant for people who genuinely want to look for a match."
Safety issues aside, some marriage experts in the region still have their reservations about the validity of internet sites in finding a life partner.
Widad Samawi, director of the Tawasel centre for training and family in Abu Dhabi, co-ordinated the National Campaign for Social Cohesion in March after it emerged the UAE has one of the highest rates of divorce in the Muslim world.
One in four marriages breaks down with more than 40 per cent of those involving couples in their 20s.
"These websites could work if they are within the right framework with restrictions which take into consideration religious and cultural views," she says.
"But there could be many people who are not genuine and pretending to be something they are not. Some men could be contacting 10 ladies or more - how do you know if he is serious?
"There is a danger that people could be misled. Marriage is the most important project in our lives and should be studied carefully before taking that step."
Alexandra Tribe, a divorce lawyer with Al Midfa legal consultancy, urges a similar note of caution: "The most important aspect is cultural suitability, and that is not necessarily something you can learn from a website."
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Director: Jon M Chu
Stars: Cynthia Erivo, Ariana Grande, Jonathan Bailey
From Zero
Artist: Linkin Park
Label: Warner Records
Number of tracks: 11
Rating: 4/5
Citizenship-by-investment programmes
United Kingdom
The UK offers three programmes for residency. The UK Overseas Business Representative Visa lets you open an overseas branch office of your existing company in the country at no extra investment. For the UK Tier 1 Innovator Visa, you are required to invest £50,000 (Dh238,000) into a business. You can also get a UK Tier 1 Investor Visa if you invest £2 million, £5m or £10m (the higher the investment, the sooner you obtain your permanent residency).
All UK residency visas get approved in 90 to 120 days and are valid for 3 years. After 3 years, the applicant can apply for extension of another 2 years. Once they have lived in the UK for a minimum of 6 months every year, they are eligible to apply for permanent residency (called Indefinite Leave to Remain). After one year of ILR, the applicant can apply for UK passport.
The Caribbean
Depending on the country, the investment amount starts from $100,000 (Dh367,250) and can go up to $400,000 in real estate. From the date of purchase, it will take between four to five months to receive a passport.
Portugal
The investment amount ranges from €350,000 to €500,000 (Dh1.5m to Dh2.16m) in real estate. From the date of purchase, it will take a maximum of six months to receive a Golden Visa. Applicants can apply for permanent residency after five years and Portuguese citizenship after six years.
“Among European countries with residency programmes, Portugal has been the most popular because it offers the most cost-effective programme to eventually acquire citizenship of the European Union without ever residing in Portugal,” states Veronica Cotdemiey of Citizenship Invest.
Greece
The real estate investment threshold to acquire residency for Greece is €250,000, making it the cheapest real estate residency visa scheme in Europe. You can apply for residency in four months and citizenship after seven years.
Spain
The real estate investment threshold to acquire residency for Spain is €500,000. You can apply for permanent residency after five years and citizenship after 10 years. It is not necessary to live in Spain to retain and renew the residency visa permit.
Cyprus
Cyprus offers the quickest route to citizenship of a European country in only six months. An investment of €2m in real estate is required, making it the highest priced programme in Europe.
Malta
The Malta citizenship by investment programme is lengthy and investors are required to contribute sums as donations to the Maltese government. The applicant must either contribute at least €650,000 to the National Development & Social Fund. Spouses and children are required to contribute €25,000; unmarried children between 18 and 25 and dependent parents must contribute €50,000 each.
The second step is to make an investment in property of at least €350,000 or enter a property rental contract for at least €16,000 per annum for five years. The third step is to invest at least €150,000 in bonds or shares approved by the Maltese government to be kept for at least five years.
Candidates must commit to a minimum physical presence in Malta before citizenship is granted. While you get residency in two months, you can apply for citizenship after a year.
Egypt
A one-year residency permit can be bought if you purchase property in Egypt worth $100,000. A three-year residency is available for those who invest $200,000 in property, and five years for those who purchase property worth $400,000.
Source: Citizenship Invest and Aqua Properties
Disclaimer
Director: Alfonso Cuaron
Stars: Cate Blanchett, Kevin Kline, Lesley Manville
Rating: 4/5
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UPI facts
More than 2.2 million Indian tourists arrived in UAE in 2023
More than 3.5 million Indians reside in UAE
Indian tourists can make purchases in UAE using rupee accounts in India through QR-code-based UPI real-time payment systems
Indian residents in UAE can use their non-resident NRO and NRE accounts held in Indian banks linked to a UAE mobile number for UPI transactions
In-demand jobs and monthly salaries
- Technology expert in robotics and automation: Dh20,000 to Dh40,000
- Energy engineer: Dh25,000 to Dh30,000
- Production engineer: Dh30,000 to Dh40,000
- Data-driven supply chain management professional: Dh30,000 to Dh50,000
- HR leader: Dh40,000 to Dh60,000
- Engineering leader: Dh30,000 to Dh55,000
- Project manager: Dh55,000 to Dh65,000
- Senior reservoir engineer: Dh40,000 to Dh55,000
- Senior drilling engineer: Dh38,000 to Dh46,000
- Senior process engineer: Dh28,000 to Dh38,000
- Senior maintenance engineer: Dh22,000 to Dh34,000
- Field engineer: Dh6,500 to Dh7,500
- Field supervisor: Dh9,000 to Dh12,000
- Field operator: Dh5,000 to Dh7,000
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Director: Siva
Stars: Suriya, Bobby Deol, Disha Patani, Yogi Babu, Redin Kingsley
The bio:
Favourite holiday destination: I really enjoyed Sri Lanka and Vietnam but my dream destination is the Maldives.
Favourite food: My mum’s Chinese cooking.
Favourite film: Robocop, followed by The Terminator.
Hobbies: Off-roading, scuba diving, playing squash and going to the gym.
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Producer: Maddock Films, Jio Movies
Director: Amar Kaushik
Cast: Rajkummar Rao, Shraddha Kapoor, Pankaj Tripathi, Aparshakti Khurana, Abhishek Banerjee
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Not Dark Yet
Shelby Lynne and Allison Moorer
Four stars
If you go
Where to stay: Courtyard by Marriott Titusville Kennedy Space Centre has unparalleled views of the Indian River. Alligators can be spotted from hotel room balconies, as can several rocket launch sites. The hotel also boasts cool space-themed decor.
When to go: Florida is best experienced during the winter months, from November to May, before the humidity kicks in.
How to get there: Emirates currently flies from Dubai to Orlando five times a week.
What it means to be a conservationist
Who is Enric Sala?
Enric Sala is an expert on marine conservation and is currently the National Geographic Society's Explorer-in-Residence. His love of the sea started with his childhood in Spain, inspired by the example of the legendary diver Jacques Cousteau. He has been a university professor of Oceanography in the US, as well as working at the Spanish National Council for Scientific Research and is a member of the World Economic Forum’s Global Future Council on Biodiversity and the Bio-Economy. He has dedicated his life to protecting life in the oceans. Enric describes himself as a flexitarian who only eats meat occasionally.
What is biodiversity?
According to the United Nations Environment Programme, all life on earth – including in its forests and oceans – forms a “rich tapestry of interconnecting and interdependent forces”. Biodiversity on earth today is the product of four billion years of evolution and consists of many millions of distinct biological species. The term ‘biodiversity’ is relatively new, popularised since the 1980s and coinciding with an understanding of the growing threats to the natural world including habitat loss, pollution and climate change. The loss of biodiversity itself is dangerous because it contributes to clean, consistent water flows, food security, protection from floods and storms and a stable climate. The natural world can be an ally in combating global climate change but to do so it must be protected. Nations are working to achieve this, including setting targets to be reached by 2020 for the protection of the natural state of 17 per cent of the land and 10 per cent of the oceans. However, these are well short of what is needed, according to experts, with half the land needed to be in a natural state to help avert disaster.
Nayanthara: Beyond The Fairy Tale
Starring: Nayanthara, Vignesh Shivan, Radhika Sarathkumar, Nagarjuna Akkineni
Director: Amith Krishnan
Rating: 3.5/5
Other ways to buy used products in the UAE
UAE insurance firm Al Wathba National Insurance Company (AWNIC) last year launched an e-commerce website with a facility enabling users to buy car wrecks.
Bidders and potential buyers register on the online salvage car auction portal to view vehicles, review condition reports, or arrange physical surveys, and then start bidding for motors they plan to restore or harvest for parts.
Physical salvage car auctions are a common method for insurers around the world to move on heavily damaged vehicles, but AWNIC is one of the few UAE insurers to offer such services online.
For cars and less sizeable items such as bicycles and furniture, Dubizzle is arguably the best-known marketplace for pre-loved.
Founded in 2005, in recent years it has been joined by a plethora of Facebook community pages for shifting used goods, including Abu Dhabi Marketplace, Flea Market UAE and Arabian Ranches Souq Market while sites such as The Luxury Closet and Riot deal largely in second-hand fashion.
At the high-end of the pre-used spectrum, resellers such as Timepiece360.ae, WatchBox Middle East and Watches Market Dubai deal in authenticated second-hand luxury timepieces from brands such as Rolex, Hublot and Tag Heuer, with a warranty.
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Libya's Gold
UN Panel of Experts found regime secretly sold a fifth of the country's gold reserves.
The panel’s 2017 report followed a trail to West Africa where large sums of cash and gold were hidden by Abdullah Al Senussi, Qaddafi’s former intelligence chief, in 2011.
Cases filled with cash that was said to amount to $560m in 100 dollar notes, that was kept by a group of Libyans in Ouagadougou, Burkina Faso.
A second stash was said to have been held in Accra, Ghana, inside boxes at the local offices of an international human rights organisation based in France.