Shemi, an author, had a difficult early life when at times the ‘hunger would be unbearable’. But Ramadan brings back memories of hope and the promise of better times to come. Duncan Chard for The National
Shemi, an author, had a difficult early life when at times the ‘hunger would be unbearable’. But Ramadan brings back memories of hope and the promise of better times to come. Duncan Chard for The NatiShow more

My Ramadan: holy months brings back memories of perserverance over poverty



DUBAI // Ramadan takes Indian author Shemi back to the difficult years when she and her family lived on the streets in a southern Indian city, working odd jobs to survive.

Shemi survived on meagre food handouts instead of wages when as a young child she scrubbed floors and washed dishes in restaurants and homes.

“My hunger would be unbearable,” she says. “One day during Ramadan when the scraps of food were not enough, I searched for recyclable items on the street so I could hand this over to get some fils from the ­recycling shop.

“I bought three dates and a handful of peanuts with the money.”

Shemi remembers clutching her small portion of dates and peanuts while the aroma of fried fish and simmering mutton stew filled the air for lavish iftars being prepared.

“Waiting for the azaan with dates in my hand and an empty stomach was agonising. But finally when the azaan started and the sound filled the area, it was the most pure, enchanting sound.”

For the Dubai author, who is now working on her second novel, Ramadan also brings back memories of hope and the promise of better times.

Her debut Malayalam-language semi-autobiographical novel Nadavazhiyile Nerukal (The Truth in my Path) tells of the years she spent on the streets of Kannur town after the death of her parents until an orphanage gave her refuge.

Like much about her life, Ramadan stirs up strong emotions and intense recollections. Holding on to her dream that education was the key to improving her life, she went on to study in a government school and college and became a nurse.

Marriage brought Shemi to ­Dubai in 2005 where she now lives with her husband, Fazlu Rahman, and young daughters Ishaa and Eva.

The spirit of giving in the UAE never fails to lift her spirits.

“Less privileged people get good food during this month,” she says.

“The UAE Government and voluntary organisations start charity campaigns and this benefits so many people, especially those who stay in the labour camps.

“As someone who has felt the worst stages of hunger, I feel happy to hear about these ­initiatives.”

Shemi also ensures she gives back because she can never forget sleeping in a sack on the pavement, always watchful for child predators.

As a message to children that there is a way out of poverty, she released the second edition of her novel in an orphanage Kottayam town in Kerala state.

Her husband says that when the family travels to India, their first stop is orphanages before visiting relatives.

“We take cartons filled with clothes, shoes, water bottles, toys for children,” he says.

“We go to a remote village that Shemi chooses. Only when everything has been given away do we go home.

“Shemi says the children in orphanages and on the street are her family. She understands what it is to be a child alone.”

Royalties from her first book are set aside for abandoned children in India.

“God has blessed me with the wealth of experience – good, bad and some terrible. I faced hardship but life has given me opportunity too.

“The royalty is a small amount, but I always remember a quote by Prophet Mohammed: ‘A hand that gives is better than the hand that takes’.

“Ramadan is clouded with memories for me but when you start paying society back, you feel relieved of the burden of debt that you were carrying on your shoulders.”

rtalwar@thenational.ae

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The flights
Flydubai offers three daily direct flights to Sarajevo and, from June, a daily flight from Thessaloniki from Dubai. A return flight costs from Dhs1,905 including taxes.
The trip 
The Travel Scientists are the organisers of the Balkan Ride and several other rallies around the world. The 2018 running of this particular adventure will take place from August 3-11, once again starting in Sarajevo and ending a week later in Thessaloniki. If you’re driving your own vehicle, then entry start from €880 (Dhs 3,900) per person including all accommodation along the route. Contact the Travel Scientists if you wish to hire one of their vehicles. 

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Name: The Concept

Founders: Yadhushan Mahendran, Maria Sobh and Muhammad Rijal

Based: Abu Dhabi

Founded: 2017

Number of employees: 7

Sector: Aviation and space industry

Funding: $250,000

Future plans: Looking to raise $1 million investment to boost expansion and develop new products

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Court 1

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Sara Sorribes Tormo v Nadia Podoroska

Marketa Vondrousova v Su-Wei Hsieh

Elise Mertens (7) v Alize Cornet

Tamara Zidansek v Jennifer Brady (11)

Heather Watson v Jodie Burrage

Vera Zvonareva v Amandine Hesse

Court 2

Starting at 10am:

Arantxa Rus v Xiyu Wang

Maria Kostyuk v Lucie Hradecka

Karolina Muchova v Danka Kovinic

Cori Gauff v Ulrikke Eikeri

Mona Barthel v Anastasia Gasanova

Court 3

Starting at 10am:

Kateryna Bondarenko v Yafan Wang

Aliaksandra Sasnovich v Anna Bondar

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ESSENTIALS

The flights

Emirates flies direct from Dubai to Rio de Janeiro from Dh7,000 return including taxes. Avianca fliles from Rio to Cusco via Lima from $399 (Dhxx) return including taxes. 

The trip

From US$1,830 per deluxe cabin, twin share, for the one-night Spirit of the Water itinerary and US$4,630 per deluxe cabin for the Peruvian Highlands itinerary, inclusive of meals, and beverages. Surcharges apply for some excursions.

RESULTS

Bantamweight: Victor Nunes (BRA) beat Azizbek Satibaldiev (KYG). Round 1 KO

Featherweight: Izzeddin Farhan (JOR) beat Ozodbek Azimov (UZB). Round 1 rear naked choke

Middleweight: Zaakir Badat (RSA) beat Ercin Sirin (TUR). Round 1 triangle choke

Featherweight: Ali Alqaisi (JOR) beat Furkatbek Yokubov (UZB). Round 1 TKO

Featherweight: Abu Muslim Alikhanov (RUS) beat Atabek Abdimitalipov (KYG). Unanimous decision

Catchweight 74kg: Mirafzal Akhtamov (UZB) beat Marcos Costa (BRA). Split decision

Welterweight: Andre Fialho (POR) beat Sang Hoon-yu (KOR). Round 1 TKO

Lightweight: John Mitchell (IRE) beat Arbi Emiev (RUS). Round 2 RSC (deep cuts)

Middleweight: Gianni Melillo (ITA) beat Mohammed Karaki (LEB)

Welterweight: Handesson Ferreira (BRA) beat Amiran Gogoladze (GEO). Unanimous decision

Flyweight (Female): Carolina Jimenez (VEN) beat Lucrezia Ria (ITA), Round 1 rear naked choke

Welterweight: Daniel Skibinski (POL) beat Acoidan Duque (ESP). Round 3 TKO

Lightweight: Martun Mezhlumyan (ARM) beat Attila Korkmaz (TUR). Unanimous decision

Bantamweight: Ray Borg (USA) beat Jesse Arnett (CAN). Unanimous decision

the pledge

I pledge to uphold the duty of tolerance

I pledge to take a first stand against hate and injustice

I pledge to respect and accept people whose abilities, beliefs and culture are different from my own

I pledge to wish for others what I wish for myself

I pledge to live in harmony with my community

I pledge to always be open to dialogue and forgiveness

I pledge to do my part to create peace for all

I pledge to exercise benevolence and choose kindness in all my dealings with my community

I pledge to always stand up for these values: Zayed's values for tolerance and human fraternity


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