Women weren’t generally encouraged to work in Nikita Kothari’s family. However, her mother motivated her to be <a href="https://www.thenationalnews.com/business/money/2024/03/29/why-money-should-be-viewed-as-a-tool-and-not-a-goal/" target="_blank">financially independent </a>from a young age. “People in my state are not very broad-minded. They want their <a href="https://www.thenationalnews.com/uae/education/children-learn-value-of-money-through-school-financial-literacy-project-1.612601" target="_blank">girls to get a good education</a>, but don’t allow them to work,” says Ms Kothari, who is from Jaipur, in the <a href="https://www.thenationalnews.com/business/regal-rajasthan-well-to-do-tourism-in-the-land-of-kings-1.335323" target="_blank">state of Rajasthan</a> in the west of India. “But my mum pushed me to take tuitions for young children as she <a href="https://www.thenationalnews.com/business/money/2024/02/23/what-are-the-steps-to-achieve-financial-freedom/" target="_blank">wanted me to be independent</a>. I always had a zeal to work and took up employment while pursuing my college education.” Ms Kothari, 34, works as an operations director for <a href="https://www.thenationalnews.com/business/money/2024/04/02/my-dubai-salary-i-earn-up-to-dh23-million-a-month-in-real-estate/" target="_blank">a real estate company </a>in Dubai. Her husband launched the company, Skyline International Real Estate, during the Covid-19 pandemic in 2020. She has a master’s degree in environmental research. Ms Kothari, who has been in the UAE for eight years, lives in Dubai Creek Harbour with her family, which includes her husband and a baby son. Her family owns food and jewellery businesses in Rajasthan, while her sister runs a bridal trousseau company. I started working in India even before I graduated. While I was in college, I started working with Kingfisher Airlines. My first salary was 15,000 Indian rupees ($179.80) in 2008-09. I was working with the ground staff and was in charge of conducting training and grooming. After that, I worked with Porsche for four years in Delhi. I moved to the UAE after my wedding. I came here on a visit visa and it took me three months to find a job. Although I was new to the country, I was determined to find a job with good pay. My first job in the UAE was as a buying assistant with an e-commerce company. I was part of the pre-opening team and started with a monthly salary of Dh8,000 ($2,178) and this increased to Dh18,000 by the time I left the company after four years as an assistant buyer. Coming from a science background, it was a challenge to get into e-commerce. But learning doesn't stop. I learnt a lot and the job gave me a lot of exposure. Although I work in my husband's business, I am still an employee. I draw a salary of Dh25,000 per month. I'm the operations director – I design training programmes, take care of recruitment and also manage accounting and finance. Yes, I do. Coming from a Marwari business family, we have a natural tendency to save. We have been taught to save a significant amount of our earnings and spend only whatever is extra. I invest in gold and systematic investment plans. I also buy land and property. I try to invest all the money I save. I purchased a property in Jaipur, which I have listed on Airbnb. I have also invested in a one-bedroom apartment in Downtown Dubai for Dh2 million, which I purchased with my own money in 2018. I'm also planning to buy a studio apartment in Jumeirah Village Circle. The property I currently live in in Dubai is a joint investment with my husband. I don't use credit cards or have any loans now. There are many offers on credit cards here to attract shoppers. I was caught in this trap earlier, overspent and exceeded my budget. You end up buying impulsively, that became my habit at one time. I prefer to spend with only debit cards and cash now. I paid off the mortgage on my property in Dubai. I managed to do this because I try to cut costs wherever possible and save as much money as I can. I prefer to go for a loan with a short tenure because if it’s a long-term loan, you tend to be relaxed. I will take a mortgage to buy my second property in the UAE. Yes, by my mum. Home makers are really good planners. She used to save a lot of money and tell us how to invest and what to buy. She always asked us to invest in gold and taught us how to budget for household expenses. I always strictly save 50 per cent of my monthly salary. From the remaining amount, I allocate 15 per cent for my expenses. With the remaining money, I buy gold either on a monthly basis or every 15 days. I don't buy gold bars in the UAE because I cannot take it to India. I buy small jewellery. Besides gold, I also invest in SIPs and post office saving accounts in India. My major monthly expense are on groceries and my child’s stuff. I do not go beyond my budget and plan it well every month. I have a combined account with my husband for travel. We are travel freaks and take a holiday every two months. I don't get into his investments or savings. Yes, it can sustain me for a year. I’ve had it for the past five years. Although I have a passion to work and create money from money, I always have contingency money and a backup plan. I wish to retire at the age of 40. I want to explore the world and give time to my family. My properties and gold are to sustain me during retirement. If there is an emergency in the future, I can take out a gold loan or sell it. I buy luxury stuff since I also work as a fashion stylist. I love buying branded handbags. I don’t buy it very frequently. I only buy them when I'm travelling to Europe or London and find good offers there. I don't worry about money, but I worry about circumstances. Coming from a business family, we have seen rough times. That's why I want to secure my future for myself, my child and family. I don't want to rely on anybody. I always check out deals when buying either groceries or things for myself, my baby, husband or helpers in Dubai. Yes, through rental income from my property investments. I want to buy multiple properties and earn rental income in the next five years. My long-term goal is to buy a farmhouse in India. I'm already in touch with property agents and am looking for a good plot. I want to live there in future. <i>Do you want to be featured in My Salary, a weekly column that explores how people around the world manage their earnings? Write to </i><a href="mailto:pf@thenationalnews.com" target="_blank"><i>pf@thenationalnews.com</i></a><i> to share your story</i>