At a luncheon meeting with a group of Indian women, I found myself stumped by a polite question about my hobbies.
I stood there, my mouth opening and closing like a fool. Just the kind these ladies would not suffer in their midst. It was my first time at one of those gatherings popularly known as "kitty parties". The equivalent of ladies who lunch. Women of leisure who gather to exchange double-edged pleasantries over salad. In this case, it was a lovely spread of Thai curries.
You would think it would be easy to put a simple question about hobbies into simple context. I didn't sew. Or make handbags or jewellery like many of the women there. And I certainly did not have any time to paint (a long-forgotten skill from high school).
The last recollection of any hobby I had was briefly collecting interesting looking pieces of stone that I found along the shores of lakes in Ontario's cottage country or at beautiful summer homes along some of Canada's most picturesque lakes. I'd stack them up on my bookshelf and practice putting together a cairn.
I wasn't sure how it would translate, trying to explain my wanderings and collection of two-bit stones because of their unusual shapes or colours. Instead, I settled on the only thing a word like hobby can conjure. I told the patient lady that I used to collect postage stamps as a child. Obviously, she was disappointed. She probably expected something like diamonds, or volunteering for charities. Instead, she got some journalist blundering on about postage stamps.
It led to painful memories. I had the best collection in grade three. When leaving for the mid-term holidays that year, our teachers asked us to build a collection, cultivate a hobby and return with something for show-and-tell. I had been diligently collecting stamps for a while and was only too eager to show them off.
By the time I returned to school and showed it to the other girls in my dormitory it was a hit. I would parade it in the evenings, just before the study period began, and we would all go through a couple of countries at a time. They were not stamps bought in packets. These were genuinely stamped stamps, ripped from envelopes and sent by my parents' friends from far and wide.
But it was not to last. The day after I had produced the collection in class, the entire thing disappeared. We searched everywhere, and finally found a few torn pieces, fluttering outside the classroom window - destroyed by one of the boys in a fit of jealousy. My heart was broken and that was the last of my collections. To this day, I wonder if I'll ever feel the same way about dedicating myself to a project again.
The specs: 2018 Maserati GranTurismo/GranCabrio
Price, base Dh485,000 (GranTurismo) and Dh575,000 (GranCabrio)
Engine 4.7L V8
Transmission Six-speed automatic
Power 460hp @ 7,000rpm
Torque 520Nm @ 4,750rpm
Fuel economy, combined 14.3L (GranTurismo) and 14.5L (GranCabrio) / 100km
MATCH INFO
Europa League final
Who: Marseille v Atletico Madrid
Where: Parc OL, Lyon, France
When: Wednesday, 10.45pm kick off (UAE)
TV: BeIN Sports
Match info
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South Africa v India schedule
Tests: 1st Test Jan 5-9, Cape Town; 2nd Test Jan 13-17, Centurion; 3rd Test Jan 24-28, Johannesburg
ODIs: 1st ODI Feb 1, Durban; 2nd ODI Feb 4, Centurion; 3rd ODI Feb 7, Cape Town; 4th ODI Feb 10, Johannesburg; 5th ODI Feb 13, Port Elizabeth; 6th ODI Feb 16, Centurion
T20Is: 1st T20I Feb 18, Johannesburg; 2nd T20I Feb 21, Centurion; 3rd T20I Feb 24, Cape Town
The specs
Engine: 3-litre twin-turbo V6
Power: 400hp
Torque: 475Nm
Transmission: 9-speed automatic
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Need to know
The flights: Flydubai flies from Dubai to Kilimanjaro airport via Dar es Salaam from Dh1,619 return including taxes. The trip takes 8 hours.
The trek: Make sure that whatever tour company you select to climb Kilimanjaro, that it is a reputable one. The way to climb successfully would be with experienced guides and porters, from a company committed to quality, safety and an ethical approach to the mountain and its staff. Sonia Nazareth booked a VIP package through Safari Africa. The tour works out to $4,775 (Dh17,538) per person, based on a 4-person booking scheme, for 9 nights on the mountain (including one night before and after the trek at Arusha). The price includes all meals, a head guide, an assistant guide for every 2 trekkers, porters to carry the luggage, a cook and kitchen staff, a dining and mess tent, a sleeping tent set up for 2 persons, a chemical toilet and park entrance fees. The tiny ration of heated water provided for our bath in our makeshift private bathroom stall was the greatest luxury. A standard package, also based on a 4-person booking, works out to $3,050 (Dh11,202) per person.
When to go: You can climb Kili at any time of year, but the best months to ascend are January-February and September-October. Also good are July and August, if you’re tolerant of the colder weather that winter brings.
Do not underestimate the importance of kit. Even if you’re travelling at a relatively pleasant time, be geared up for the cold and the rain.
The specs: Rolls-Royce Cullinan
Price, base: Dh1 million (estimate)
Engine: 6.75-litre twin-turbo V12
Transmission: Eight-speed automatic
Power: 563hp @ 5,000rpm
Torque: 850Nm @ 1,600rpm
Fuel economy, combined: 15L / 100km
Sonchiriya
Director: Abhishek Chaubey
Producer: RSVP Movies, Azure Entertainment
Cast: Sushant Singh Rajput, Manoj Bajpayee, Ashutosh Rana, Bhumi Pednekar, Ranvir Shorey
Rating: 3/5
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The flights: South African Airways flies from Dubai International Airport with a stop in Johannesburg, with prices starting from around Dh4,000 return. Emirates can get you there with a stop in Lusaka from around Dh4,600 return.
The details: Visas are available for 247 Zambian kwacha or US$20 (Dh73) per person on arrival at Livingstone Airport. Single entry into Victoria Falls for international visitors costs 371 kwacha or $30 (Dh110). Microlight flights are available through Batoka Sky, with 15-minute flights costing 2,265 kwacha (Dh680).
Accommodation: The Royal Livingstone Victoria Falls Hotel by Anantara is an ideal place to stay, within walking distance of the falls and right on the Zambezi River. Rooms here start from 6,635 kwacha (Dh2,398) per night, including breakfast, taxes and Wi-Fi. Water arrivals cost from 587 kwacha (Dh212) per person.
UAE currency: the story behind the money in your pockets
UAE currency: the story behind the money in your pockets