It’s been a busy week. In the past seven days I’ve had to prep my seven-year-old for two extra curricular exams and accompany her to them. I’ve had to make two costumes for both children to wear to school. I’ve also had to build a school project and memorise times tables. This is in addition to planning a rigorous timetable of activities for both of them to engage in during the upcoming school holidays, weaving together play dates, camps and day trips. And that’s before sorting out the usual uniforms, homework, cooking and bedtimes. I’m exhausted. And every week feels the same.
If you’re a mum like me, you might be nodding along, weeping into a mug of cold tea that you made at breakfast time and are only getting around to drinking even though you’re about to go to bed. Because sometimes, as a mum, you need to prove to yourself that you can do normal things. Like make it to the end of a cup of tea. Even if it does take you 12 hours and it’s been reheated eight times.
So it comes as no surprise to me that a recent survey of 2,000 mothers of children aged five to 12 in the US has discovered that motherhood is more than a full-time job. Tell us something that us mums don’t already know! In fact, according to the research, mums spend on average 98 hours every week just on parent-related tasks. That’s the same as two and a half jobs. We are clocking on at 6.23am and clocking out at 8.31pm, although I feel like the duties involved in planning and preparation along with night time wake ups goes well past dinner time. And of course for working mums, there’s another job on top of all this.
Add all the jobs up and I’m doing more than three people’s worth of work. Am I a supermum? Heck yes. Do I want to be? Not really.
While the research characterises the work in the gender neutral term “parent-related tasks”, studies show not only does the vast bulk of parenting fall on women’s shoulders in absolute terms, but it also falls on women in proportionate terms too. A study by Ohio State University for example shows that after the birth of a new baby, the mother’s workload increased by 21 hours compared to the father’s that increased by 12.5 hours. So in real terms her workload increased more, and it was also a 70 per cent increase in relative terms, and this could not be explained by differences in paid work hours or breastfeeding.
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You can also add to this that women do the disproportionate share of the housework and tasks.
What you end up with is a picture of a family where the woman is working around three to five jobs in total. And given that childcare and housework accrue almost no pay, this work falls entirely under the radar. Add to this that any paid employment that women do undertake is victim to a gender pay gap, and the output appears to be a massive proportion of our population being excessively overworked with almost no recognition, financial, emotional or otherwise.
My concern is that the response to these revelations, from men who still won't step up, is to shrug their shoulders and say "that's why mums are so amazing!" rather than doing anything to help.
All of this doesn’t even begin to cover what is increasingly known as the ‘emotional load’ that women carry. That is all the planning, research and organisation required to manage children and a household which generally fall on the mother. This is invisible but intensely draining. How can we even measure and account for the toll it takes in terms of stress and the effect on physical and mental health.
What is better than lip service to mothers, is actions. Taking on the workload would be the best way to show appreciation. In fact, it needs to be done because doing the work is not about appreciation or a being a kindness or a gift. The workload in the household belongs to both parents.
That’s why I’m wondering as a starter if I should outsource this article to my husband so he's doing his share of the overall load.
UPI facts
More than 2.2 million Indian tourists arrived in UAE in 2023
More than 3.5 million Indians reside in UAE
Indian tourists can make purchases in UAE using rupee accounts in India through QR-code-based UPI real-time payment systems
Indian residents in UAE can use their non-resident NRO and NRE accounts held in Indian banks linked to a UAE mobile number for UPI transactions
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Based: Gaza
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Fourth Arab Economic and Social Development Summit
As he spoke, Mr Aboul Gheit repeatedly referred to the need to tackle issues affecting the welfare of people across the region both in terms of preventing conflict and in pushing development.
Lebanon is scheduled to host the fourth Arab Economic and Social Development Summit in January that will see regional leaders gather to tackle the challenges facing the Middle East. The last such summit was held in 2013. Assistant Secretary-General Hossam Zaki told The National that the Beirut Summit “will be an opportunity for Arab leaders to discuss solely economic and social issues, the conference will not focus on political concerns such as Palestine, Syria or Libya". He added that its slogan will be “the individual is at the heart of development”, adding that it will focus on all elements of human capital.
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- Grade 2 = between grades E and F
- Grade 1 = between grades F and G
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The specs
Engine: 2-litre or 3-litre 4Motion all-wheel-drive Power: 250Nm (2-litre); 340 (3-litre) Torque: 450Nm Transmission: 8-speed automatic Starting price: From Dh212,000 On sale: Now
BOSH!'s pantry essentials
Nutritional yeast
This is Firth's pick and an ingredient he says, "gives you an instant cheesy flavour". He advises making your own cream cheese with it or simply using it to whip up a mac and cheese or wholesome lasagne. It's available in organic and specialist grocery stores across the UAE.
Seeds
"We've got a big jar of mixed seeds in our kitchen," Theasby explains. "That's what you use to make a bolognese or pie or salad: just grab a handful of seeds and sprinkle them over the top. It's a really good way to make sure you're getting your omegas."
Umami flavours
"I could say soya sauce, but I'll say all umami-makers and have them in the same batch," says Firth. He suggests having items such as Marmite, balsamic vinegar and other general, dark, umami-tasting products in your cupboard "to make your bolognese a little bit more 'umptious'".
Onions and garlic
"If you've got them, you can cook basically anything from that base," says Theasby. "These ingredients are so prevalent in every world cuisine and if you've got them in your cupboard, then you know you've got the foundation of a really nice meal."
Your grain of choice
Whether rice, quinoa, pasta or buckwheat, Firth advises always having a stock of your favourite grains in the cupboard. "That you, you have an instant meal and all you have to do is just chuck a bit of veg in."
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Torque: 250Nm
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Max touring range: 620km / 590km
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Sustainable Development Goals
1. End poverty in all its forms everywhere
2. End hunger, achieve food security and improved nutrition and promote sustainable agriculture
3. Ensure healthy lives and promote well-being for all at all ages
4. Ensure inclusive and equitable quality education and promote lifelong learning opportunities for all
5. Achieve gender equality and empower all women and girls
6. Ensure availability and sustainable management of water and sanitation for all
7. Ensure access to affordable, reliable, sustainable and modern energy for all
8. Promote sustained, inclusive and sustainable economic growth, full and productive employment and decent work for all
9. Build resilient infrastructure, promote inclusive and sustainable industrialisation and foster innovation
10. Reduce inequality within and among countries
11. Make cities and human settlements inclusive, safe, resilient and sustainable
12. Ensure sustainable consumption and production patterns
13. Take urgent action to combat climate change and its effects
14. Conserve and sustainably use the oceans, seas and marine resources for sustainable development
15. Protect, restore and promote sustainable use of terrestrial ecosystems, sustainably manage forests, combat desertification, and halt and reverse land degradation and halt biodiversity loss
16. Promote peaceful and inclusive societies for sustainable development, provide access to justice for all and build effective, accountable and inclusive institutions at all levels
17. Strengthen the means of implementation and revitalise the global partnership for sustainable development
Cases of coronavirus in the GCC as of March 15
Saudi Arabia – 103 infected, 0 dead, 1 recovered
UAE – 86 infected, 0 dead, 23 recovered
Bahrain – 210 infected, 0 dead, 44 recovered
Kuwait – 104 infected, 0 dead, 5 recovered
Qatar – 337 infected, 0 dead, 4 recovered
Oman – 19 infected, 0 dead, 9 recovered
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Business Insights
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- The introduction of tariffs could hinder the US's clean energy initiatives by raising input costs for materials like nickel
- US domestic suppliers might benefit from higher prices, but overall oil consumption is expected to decrease due to elevated costs
COMPANY PROFILE
Name: HyperSpace
Started: 2020
Founders: Alexander Heller, Rama Allen and Desi Gonzalez
Based: Dubai, UAE
Sector: Entertainment
Number of staff: 210
Investment raised: $75 million from investors including Galaxy Interactive, Riyadh Season, Sega Ventures and Apis Venture Partners
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Living in...
This article is part of a guide on where to live in the UAE. Our reporters will profile some of the country’s most desirable districts, provide an estimate of rental prices and introduce you to some of the residents who call each area home.
ETFs explained
Exhchange traded funds are bought and sold like shares, but operate as index-tracking funds, passively following their chosen indices, such as the S&P 500, FTSE 100 and the FTSE All World, plus a vast range of smaller exchanges and commodities, such as gold, silver, copper sugar, coffee and oil.
ETFs have zero upfront fees and annual charges as low as 0.07 per cent a year, which means you get to keep more of your returns, as actively managed funds can charge as much as 1.5 per cent a year.
There are thousands to choose from, with the five biggest providers BlackRock’s iShares range, Vanguard, State Street Global Advisors SPDR ETFs, Deutsche Bank AWM X-trackers and Invesco PowerShares.
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Ticket prices
- Golden circle - Dh995
- Floor Standing - Dh495
- Lower Bowl Platinum - Dh95
- Lower Bowl premium - Dh795
- Lower Bowl Plus - Dh695
- Lower Bowl Standard- Dh595
- Upper Bowl Premium - Dh395
- Upper Bowl standard - Dh295
Electric scooters: some rules to remember
- Riders must be 14-years-old or over
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- Do not leave electric scooter in locations that obstruct traffic or pedestrians
- Solo riders only, no passengers allowed
- Do not drive outside designated lanes
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Dir: Ron Howard
Starring: Alden Ehrenreich, Emilia Clarke, Woody Harrelson
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The specs: Macan Turbo
Engine: Dual synchronous electric motors
Power: 639hp
Torque: 1,130Nm
Transmission: Single-speed automatic
Touring range: 591km
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On sale: Deliveries start in October
Museum of the Future in numbers
- 78 metres is the height of the museum
- 30,000 square metres is its total area
- 17,000 square metres is the length of the stainless steel facade
- 14 kilometres is the length of LED lights used on the facade
- 1,024 individual pieces make up the exterior
- 7 floors in all, with one for administrative offices
- 2,400 diagonally intersecting steel members frame the torus shape
- 100 species of trees and plants dot the gardens
- Dh145 is the price of a ticket
