Should nationality be a factor when you're looking for love? For many, it is.
Five years ago, when my Saudi friend Nouf decided to marry a non-Saudi, she was warned that her husband and her children would "forever be foreigners" in Saudi Arabia. They'd require visas for the rest of their lives to stay with her.
But Nouf, which is not her real name, went ahead and got married to an Arab national from the Levant anyway.
"I just couldn't find a suitable Saudi man to marry, and I was over 30," she said recently. "Saudi men usually want someone younger and someone within the family. It is very difficult to find someone who understands and loves you."
And like many who I know who married outside their nationalities, particularly Gulf women who married non-Gulf men, it turned out to be a bigger sacrifice than they ever imagined. In Nouf's case, I watched as our Saudi friends shunned her and slowly cut her off from their social gatherings and special occasions.
Her husband is actually from a richer family than Nouf's, but because he was not Saudi and not from a famous pedigree, she had fallen in their eyes and was forever "lost".
Nouf's experience isn't unique. According to a report published in the Saudi Gazette, out of the nearly 163,000 marriage contracts signed by courts in Saudi Arabia in 2011, almost 2,000 were issued to Saudi women who married non-Saudi males, and 2,640 contracts were issued to Saudi men marrying non-Saudi women.
Yemeni men topped the list of non-Saudi men married to Saudi women at 456, followed by Kuwaitis (351), Qataris (247), Syrians (149), Emiratis (124), Egyptians (111), Lebanese (66) and Pakistanis (46).
As if life wasn't hard enough after she married out of her nationality, Nouf experienced an entirely new level of frustration when she had her first child. The happiest moments were turned into logistical and bureaucratic nightmares.
When Nouf wanted to visit me one weekend, it hit her hard that she couldn't just bring her baby; the child requires a visa to visit the UAE, while she doesn't. What might sound like an inconvenience to most expatriates was a painful reminder for a woman like Nouf. It was a concrete example of the limitations she and her child face.
The UAE has moved in the other direction. It was truly a historic moment last year, when a presidential decree granted Emirati citizenship to children of Emirati women married to non-Emirati men. Though women must still apply for this right, and wait for approval, at least a process is in place.
Saudi women had hoped they'd received similar news on Saturday, when a story posted by Al Arabiya made the rounds on social networks, claiming similar maternity benefits. Instead, Saudi women like Nouf had been misled by a poor translation.
A correction appended to the article reads: "Due to a flaw in translation, the word 'rights' was omitted from the English version of what appeared in Al Riyadh newspaper. As such earlier versions of this story insinuated that Saudi women can pass the 'citizenship' to their children from non-Saudi husbands; however, this has been rectified to say 'citizenship rights' (which gives children from Saudi mothers rights to work and abide in Saudi Arabia)."
The disappointment among my own circle of friends married to non-Saudis was deep, but some were happy that at least now they would be able to sponsor their children and husbands.
Still, this is not enough for many. Saudi women need to obtain permission from the interior minister to marry a foreign national. Unfortunately, this can take a very long time and so many end up getting married without this piece of paper.
The decree announced on Saturday may be a step in the right direction. Some day, perhaps, the crush of paperwork and indignation will subside. And Nouf will never have to wonder if life would have been easier if she'd married a Saudi.
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Nayanthara: Beyond The Fairy Tale
Starring: Nayanthara, Vignesh Shivan, Radhika Sarathkumar, Nagarjuna Akkineni
Director: Amith Krishnan
Rating: 3.5/5
The specs
Engine: 3.0-litre six-cylinder turbo
Power: 398hp from 5,250rpm
Torque: 580Nm at 1,900-4,800rpm
Transmission: Eight-speed auto
Fuel economy, combined: 6.5L/100km
On sale: December
Price: From Dh330,000 (estimate)
Mercer, the investment consulting arm of US services company Marsh & McLennan, expects its wealth division to at least double its assets under management (AUM) in the Middle East as wealth in the region continues to grow despite economic headwinds, a company official said.
Mercer Wealth, which globally has $160 billion in AUM, plans to boost its AUM in the region to $2-$3bn in the next 2-3 years from the present $1bn, said Yasir AbuShaban, a Dubai-based principal with Mercer Wealth.
“Within the next two to three years, we are looking at reaching $2 to $3 billion as a conservative estimate and we do see an opportunity to do so,” said Mr AbuShaban.
Mercer does not directly make investments, but allocates clients’ money they have discretion to, to professional asset managers. They also provide advice to clients.
“We have buying power. We can negotiate on their (client’s) behalf with asset managers to provide them lower fees than they otherwise would have to get on their own,” he added.
Mercer Wealth’s clients include sovereign wealth funds, family offices, and insurance companies among others.
From its office in Dubai, Mercer also looks after Africa, India and Turkey, where they also see opportunity for growth.
Wealth creation in Middle East and Africa (MEA) grew 8.5 per cent to $8.1 trillion last year from $7.5tn in 2015, higher than last year’s global average of 6 per cent and the second-highest growth in a region after Asia-Pacific which grew 9.9 per cent, according to consultancy Boston Consulting Group (BCG). In the region, where wealth grew just 1.9 per cent in 2015 compared with 2014, a pickup in oil prices has helped in wealth generation.
BCG is forecasting MEA wealth will rise to $12tn by 2021, growing at an annual average of 8 per cent.
Drivers of wealth generation in the region will be split evenly between new wealth creation and growth of performance of existing assets, according to BCG.
Another general trend in the region is clients’ looking for a comprehensive approach to investing, according to Mr AbuShaban.
“Institutional investors or some of the families are seeing a slowdown in the available capital they have to invest and in that sense they are looking at optimizing the way they manage their portfolios and making sure they are not investing haphazardly and different parts of their investment are working together,” said Mr AbuShaban.
Some clients also have a higher appetite for risk, given the low interest-rate environment that does not provide enough yield for some institutional investors. These clients are keen to invest in illiquid assets, such as private equity and infrastructure.
“What we have seen is a desire for higher returns in what has been a low-return environment specifically in various fixed income or bonds,” he said.
“In this environment, we have seen a de facto increase in the risk that clients are taking in things like illiquid investments, private equity investments, infrastructure and private debt, those kind of investments were higher illiquidity results in incrementally higher returns.”
The Abu Dhabi Investment Authority, one of the largest sovereign wealth funds, said in its 2016 report that has gradually increased its exposure in direct private equity and private credit transactions, mainly in Asian markets and especially in China and India. The authority’s private equity department focused on structured equities owing to “their defensive characteristics.”
The Saudi Cup race card
1 The Jockey Club Local Handicap (TB) 1,800m (Dirt) $500,000
2 The Riyadh Dirt Sprint (TB) 1,200m (D) $1.500,000
3 The 1351 Turf Sprint 1,351m (Turf) $1,000,000
4 The Saudi Derby (TB) 1600m (D) $800,000
5 The Neom Turf Cup (TB) 2,100m (T) $1,000,000
6 The Obaiya Arabian Classic (PB) 2,000m (D) $1,900,000
7 The Red Sea Turf Handicap (TB) 3,000m (T) $2,500,000
8 The Saudi Cup (TB) 1,800m (D) $20,000,000
LA LIGA FIXTURES
Friday (UAE kick-off times)
Real Sociedad v Leganes (midnight)
Saturday
Alaves v Real Valladolid (4pm)
Valencia v Granada (7pm)
Eibar v Real Madrid (9.30pm)
Barcelona v Celta Vigo (midnight)
Sunday
Real Mallorca v Villarreal (3pm)
Athletic Bilbao v Levante (5pm)
Atletico Madrid v Espanyol (7pm)
Getafe v Osasuna (9.30pm)
Real Betis v Sevilla (midnight)
Generational responses to the pandemic
Devesh Mamtani from Century Financial believes the cash-hoarding tendency of each generation is influenced by what stage of the employment cycle they are in. He offers the following insights:
Baby boomers (those born before 1964): Owing to market uncertainty and the need to survive amid competition, many in this generation are looking for options to hoard more cash and increase their overall savings/investments towards risk-free assets.
Generation X (born between 1965 and 1980): Gen X is currently in its prime working years. With their personal and family finances taking a hit, Generation X is looking at multiple options, including taking out short-term loan facilities with competitive interest rates instead of dipping into their savings account.
Millennials (born between 1981 and 1996): This market situation is giving them a valuable lesson about investing early. Many millennials who had previously not saved or invested are looking to start doing so now.
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Russia's Muslim Heartlands
Dominic Rubin, Oxford
Two products to make at home
Toilet cleaner
1 cup baking soda
1 cup castile soap
10-20 drops of lemon essential oil (or another oil of your choice)
Method:
1. Mix the baking soda and castile soap until you get a nice consistency.
2. Add the essential oil to the mix.
Air Freshener
100ml water
5 drops of the essential oil of your choice (note: lavender is a nice one for this)
Method:
1. Add water and oil to spray bottle to store.
2. Shake well before use.
About Takalam
Date started: early 2020
Founders: Khawla Hammad and Inas Abu Shashieh
Based: Abu Dhabi
Sector: HealthTech and wellness
Number of staff: 4
Funding to date: Bootstrapped
How to protect yourself when air quality drops
Install an air filter in your home.
Close your windows and turn on the AC.
Shower or bath after being outside.
Wear a face mask.
Stay indoors when conditions are particularly poor.
If driving, turn your engine off when stationary.
Kanguva
Director: Siva
Stars: Suriya, Bobby Deol, Disha Patani, Yogi Babu, Redin Kingsley
COMPANY PROFILE
Name: HyperSpace
Started: 2020
Founders: Alexander Heller, Rama Allen and Desi Gonzalez
Based: Dubai, UAE
Sector: Entertainment
Number of staff: 210
Investment raised: $75 million from investors including Galaxy Interactive, Riyadh Season, Sega Ventures and Apis Venture Partners
THE SPECS
Engine: 4.4-litre V8
Transmission: eight-speed automatic
Power: 523hp
Torque: 750Nm
Price: Dh469,000
The specs
Engine: 77.4kW all-wheel-drive dual motor
Power: 320bhp
Torque: 605Nm
Transmission: Single-speed automatic
Price: From Dh219,000
On sale: Now