The majority of young Emirati couples experiencing marital problems argue mostly over financial issues and social media, according to a government survey seeking to tackle the country’s high divorce rates.
The survey revealed that marital problems among Emiratis are a major concern. It sought to better understand the issues facing such families so they may be offered tailored advice from counselling centres.
The survey was published on Sunday to coincide with the Ministry of Community Development's launch of a family conflict hotline after successfully completing a pilot phase.
The hotline is open to all Emiratis but 86 per cent of callers were women. And younger callers, aged between 20 and 30, made up 54 per cent.
Sixty-nine per cent of respondents said they were employed, while 29 per cent were housewives.
The biggest issue facing young couples, according to respondents, was financial problems. Many said they had disputes over the spending habits of their spouse or their lack of responsibility.
Other problems included spending too much time with friends, differences of opinion and polygamy.
Newly married couples said the two biggest issues were neglect and social media use, while one of the main problems facing parents and children was a lack of communication.
Officials statistics show that divorce among Emiratis is on the rise, with 1,922 in 2016 compared to 1,813 the previous year. One in three Abu Dhabi divorces were of marriages lasting less than 12 months.
In the decade to 2016, 27 per cent of marriages ended in divorce. The figure was about the same when it came to expatriates.
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“There are no conversations between family members,” said Waheeda Hassan, director of family development at the ministry. “Every member of the family is either on their phones, iPads or on social media. This is very often the root of the problems.
“The counselling service has been launched to support Emirati families. Instead of Emirati families resorting to the courts, our counsellors will help to resolve the dispute amicably.”
The survey said women struggled with “personal problems such as parental interference, the mother-in-law’s meddling, betrayals, financial problems, overspending, sharing a house with parents-in-law, abandonment or separation, and the husband’s previous divorce”.
The hotline is not only for married couples, Ms Hassan said. It also offers emotional support for the entire family, as well as couples who are unmarried, and guarantees confidentiality.
Emirati psychologist, Dr Naser Al Riyami, said the UAE’s high divorce rate was likely the result of rushed marriages among young people who feel pressured to tie the knot.
“Family counselling services are particularly important to help resolve problems before divorce happens. Often couples just need to be heard, to learn good communication skills and an impartial professional to guide them.”
Sana Suhail, undersecretary at the ministry, said the family hotline service aims to “help people achieve harmony in their individual and family lives, strengthen emotional bonds within the family, reduce the divorce rate in the country, prevent problems occurring in dysfunctional families, and address tension and alienation between spouses”.
This year it was announced that campaigns to promote marriage would be rolled out with the aim of building strong unions among Emiratis. More than 72 family centres are to be set up, including 27 social affairs offices, 10 federal centres for social development, 23 centres for social development, seven family consultation centres and five private family consultation centres.
Emiratis can access Taalouf through the ministry’s website or by calling their hotline on 800623, there are also service centres located across the Emirates.
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Tax authority targets shisha levy evasion
The Federal Tax Authority will track shisha imports with electronic markers to protect customers and ensure levies have been paid.
Khalid Ali Al Bustani, director of the tax authority, on Sunday said the move is to "prevent tax evasion and support the authority’s tax collection efforts".
The scheme’s first phase, which came into effect on 1st January, 2019, covers all types of imported and domestically produced and distributed cigarettes. As of May 1, importing any type of cigarettes without the digital marks will be prohibited.
He said the latest phase will see imported and locally produced shisha tobacco tracked by the final quarter of this year.
"The FTA also maintains ongoing communication with concerned companies, to help them adapt their systems to meet our requirements and coordinate between all parties involved," he said.
As with cigarettes, shisha was hit with a 100 per cent tax in October 2017, though manufacturers and cafes absorbed some of the costs to prevent prices doubling.
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A UK report on youth social media habits commissioned by advocacy group Volteface found a quarter of young people were exposed to illegal drug dealers on social media.
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Mercer, the investment consulting arm of US services company Marsh & McLennan, expects its wealth division to at least double its assets under management (AUM) in the Middle East as wealth in the region continues to grow despite economic headwinds, a company official said.
Mercer Wealth, which globally has $160 billion in AUM, plans to boost its AUM in the region to $2-$3bn in the next 2-3 years from the present $1bn, said Yasir AbuShaban, a Dubai-based principal with Mercer Wealth.
“Within the next two to three years, we are looking at reaching $2 to $3 billion as a conservative estimate and we do see an opportunity to do so,” said Mr AbuShaban.
Mercer does not directly make investments, but allocates clients’ money they have discretion to, to professional asset managers. They also provide advice to clients.
“We have buying power. We can negotiate on their (client’s) behalf with asset managers to provide them lower fees than they otherwise would have to get on their own,” he added.
Mercer Wealth’s clients include sovereign wealth funds, family offices, and insurance companies among others.
From its office in Dubai, Mercer also looks after Africa, India and Turkey, where they also see opportunity for growth.
Wealth creation in Middle East and Africa (MEA) grew 8.5 per cent to $8.1 trillion last year from $7.5tn in 2015, higher than last year’s global average of 6 per cent and the second-highest growth in a region after Asia-Pacific which grew 9.9 per cent, according to consultancy Boston Consulting Group (BCG). In the region, where wealth grew just 1.9 per cent in 2015 compared with 2014, a pickup in oil prices has helped in wealth generation.
BCG is forecasting MEA wealth will rise to $12tn by 2021, growing at an annual average of 8 per cent.
Drivers of wealth generation in the region will be split evenly between new wealth creation and growth of performance of existing assets, according to BCG.
Another general trend in the region is clients’ looking for a comprehensive approach to investing, according to Mr AbuShaban.
“Institutional investors or some of the families are seeing a slowdown in the available capital they have to invest and in that sense they are looking at optimizing the way they manage their portfolios and making sure they are not investing haphazardly and different parts of their investment are working together,” said Mr AbuShaban.
Some clients also have a higher appetite for risk, given the low interest-rate environment that does not provide enough yield for some institutional investors. These clients are keen to invest in illiquid assets, such as private equity and infrastructure.
“What we have seen is a desire for higher returns in what has been a low-return environment specifically in various fixed income or bonds,” he said.
“In this environment, we have seen a de facto increase in the risk that clients are taking in things like illiquid investments, private equity investments, infrastructure and private debt, those kind of investments were higher illiquidity results in incrementally higher returns.”
The Abu Dhabi Investment Authority, one of the largest sovereign wealth funds, said in its 2016 report that has gradually increased its exposure in direct private equity and private credit transactions, mainly in Asian markets and especially in China and India. The authority’s private equity department focused on structured equities owing to “their defensive characteristics.”
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