It does not help that I am married to a professional haggler. Leslie Pableo / The National
It does not help that I am married to a professional haggler. Leslie Pableo / The National
It does not help that I am married to a professional haggler. Leslie Pableo / The National
It does not help that I am married to a professional haggler. Leslie Pableo / The National

Bargaining is a ritual as old as time. Not on my watch, though


Panna Munyal
  • English
  • Arabic

This week, the haggling-phobe in me was excited to read about Nibble, an AI chatbot being tested by online fashion retailer Asos in the UK.

The bot is empowered to bargain with customers – using techniques based on behavioural science, negotiation theory and specific user tactics – to respond to the offer made by individual users. Some users reported getting away with discounts of up to 40 per cent when testing the new tool, which is no mean feat.

This is especially true for easily intimidated shoppers such as myself.

No matter whether you’re buying vegetables at the local souq or refitting your home courtesy of Dragon Mart, haggling is an art form that is almost expected in many parts of the world – including the UAE (where I live) and India (where I was brought up). It’s too bad the art has always been my Achilles heel.

Firing demands at bots? That is something I have had sufficient practice with. Until that technology becomes more mainstream, though, here’s how a typical conversation tends to go when I go shopping with the professional hagglers who abound in my family.

Shopkeeper (cheekily): That will be Dh100, please.

Me (falteringly): Oh … that is too much …

Shopkeeper (wolfishly): Best price for you, madam.

Me (resignedly): Oh, alright, go on then.

The haggler I am with (sternly): Not OK. Give me a better price, my friend.

Shopkeeper (craftily): I can do Dh95, last just for you.

Me (hesitantly): Can you make it Dh90, please? That was our budget.

The haggler (throwing me a dirty look): We’ll pay Dh60.

Shopkeeper (pleadingly): Dh60 impossible. You pay Dh75, that is cost price.

Me (exuberantly): Thank you so much.

The haggler (unbudgingly): Let’s go to the next shop.

Shopkeeper (cheerily): Dh65, done, kallas.

My inability to bargain is down to a combination of lack of expertise, embarrassment and, often, indifference. Much to my husband’s chagrin (and my mum and late grandma’s dismay), I’ll often pay the first price quoted just to avoid engaging in or prolonging the painful conversation that inevitably causes me to lose not just my dirhams, but also – in my mind, at least – my dignity.

Bargaining is par for the course in certain retail hubs in the UAE, such as Global Village and Dragon Mart. Pawan Singh / The National
Bargaining is par for the course in certain retail hubs in the UAE, such as Global Village and Dragon Mart. Pawan Singh / The National

As with animals, I often feel vendors can almost sniff out my fear of bargaining. It’s right there, in their toothy grins and knowing smiles as they quote prices that sound ridiculous even to my untrained ear. And yet, I pay.

It also does not help that I am married to a haggling hustler. Be it camps when the child is on break from school or souvenirs when we’re travelling, my husband expects, nay demands, he gets a better price. And he succeeds more often than not.

From wrangling out early-bird discounts long after the canary has leapt off the calendar, to getting “a staff discount, just for you, sir”, the man is a money-saving machine.

I’m very grateful for this, mind. He is, after all, saving our own hard-earned dirhams. And, let’s face it, nobody is going out of business after jacking up prices by 20 per cent and then reducing them by 10. But I am simply not skilled enough.

Despite, or perhaps because of this, I often prefer to shop on my lonesome. Neither pity nor disdain have any place in my version of retail therapy. And if I have shell out a little extra for this perceived shortcoming, I prefer to pay and smile. Sorry, grandma.

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Global state-owned investor ranking by size

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United States

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China

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UAE

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Japan

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Norway

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Canada

7.

Singapore

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Australia

9.

Saudi Arabia

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South Korea

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England

Arsenal, Chelsea, Liverpool, Manchester City, Manchester United, Tottenham Hotspur

Italy
AC Milan, Inter Milan, Juventus

Spain
Atletico Madrid, Barcelona, Real Madrid

ARGENTINA SQUAD

Goalkeepers: Franco Armani, Agustin Marchesin, Esteban Andrada
Defenders: Juan Foyth, Nicolas Otamendi, German Pezzella, Nicolas Tagliafico, Ramiro Funes Mori, Renzo Saravia, Marcos Acuna, Milton Casco
Midfielders: Leandro Paredes, Guido Rodriguez, Giovani Lo Celso, Exequiel Palacios, Roberto Pereyra, Rodrigo De Paul, Angel Di Maria
Forwards: Lionel Messi, Sergio Aguero, Lautaro Martinez, Paulo Dybala, Matias Suarez

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PREMIER LEAGUE FIXTURES

All times UAE ( 4 GMT)

Saturday
West Ham United v Tottenham Hotspur (3.30pm)
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Manchester City v Crystal Palace (7pm)
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Arsenal v West Bromwich Albion (11pm)

ULTRA PROCESSED FOODS

- Carbonated drinks, sweet or savoury packaged snacks, confectionery, mass-produced packaged breads and buns 

- margarines and spreads; cookies, biscuits, pastries, cakes, and cake mixes, breakfast cereals, cereal and energy bars;

- energy drinks, milk drinks, fruit yoghurts and fruit drinks, cocoa drinks, meat and chicken extracts and instant sauces

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UAE fixtures

Thursday February 8, v Kenya; Friday February 9, v Canada; Sunday February 11, v Nepal; Monday February 12, v Oman; Wednesday February 14, v Namibia; Thursday February 15, final

if you go

The flights

Air Astana flies direct from Dubai to Almaty from Dh2,440 per person return, and to Astana (via Almaty) from Dh2,930 return, both including taxes. 

The hotels

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Picture of Joumblatt and Hariri breaking bread sets Twitter alight

Mr Joumblatt’s pessimism regarding the Lebanese political situation didn’t stop him from enjoying a cheerful dinner on Tuesday with several politicians including Mr Hariri.

Caretaker Culture Minister Ghattas Khoury tweeted a picture of the group sitting around a table at a discrete fish restaurant in Beirut’s upscale Sodeco area.

Mr Joumblatt told The National that the fish served at Kelly’s Fish lounge had been very good.

“They really enjoyed their time”, remembers the restaurant owner. “Mr Hariri was taking selfies with everybody”.

Mr Hariri and Mr Joumblatt often have dinner together to discuss recent political developments.

Mr Joumblatt was a close ally of Mr Hariri’s assassinated father, former prime minister Rafik Hariri. The pair were leading figures in the political grouping against the 15-year Syrian occupation of Lebanon that ended after mass protests in 2005 in the wake of Rafik Hariri’s murder. After the younger Hariri took over his father’s mantle in 2004, the relationship with Mr Joumblatt endured.

However, the pair have not always been so close. In the run-up to the election last year, Messrs Hariri and Joumblatt went months without speaking over an argument regarding the new proportional electoral law to be used for the first time. Mr Joumblatt worried that a proportional system, which Mr Hariri backed, would see the influence of his small sect diminished.

With so much of Lebanese politics agreed in late-night meetings behind closed doors, the media and pundits put significant weight on how regularly, where and with who senior politicians meet.

In the picture, alongside Messrs Khoury and Hariri were Mr Joumbatt and his wife Nora, PSP politician Wael Abou Faour and Egyptian ambassador to Lebanon Nazih el Nagari.

The picture of the dinner led to a flurry of excitement on Twitter that it signified an imminent government formation. “God willing, white smoke will rise soon and Walid Beik [a nickname for Walid Joumblatt] will accept to give up the minister of industry”, one user replied to the tweet. “Blessings to you…We would like you to form a cabinet”, wrote another.  

The next few days will be crucial in determining whether these wishes come true.

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Newcastle United 1 (Carroll 82')

Leicester City 2 (Maddison 55', Tielemans 72')

Man of the match James Maddison (Leicester)

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Updated: January 18, 2025, 5:27 AM