The Year of Zayed is behind us, and we are in the first few days of the Year of Tolerance, so what should we do to live up to the year? The challenge is that, while the objective is really noble and important, tolerance is a rather tricky concept to pin down.
The word itself doesn’t denote a meaning that inspires direct action (as the Year of Giving did, for instance). Instead, it sums up an umbrella of views and philosophies that are both complex and easy to get lost in.
I got a wide range of responses from friends when I asked them what tolerance means to them. My subjects were the group of people gathered in my favourite coffee shop in Khalidiyah – a comfortable yet shabby place where you need your fair share of tolerance due to the frequent angry outbursts over lost card games.
"You want to know tolerance, you need to get married," said Ahmed, an Egyptian who works in IT. "It is a tolerance gym where you get your workout every day. For me, it means to just let things slide and take it easy."
Abdullah, a Sudanese office clerk and the most poetic of our lot, describes tolerance in his usual style. "It is sitting in the office and listening to someone you dislike while putting your hands under your chair," he says. "Sometimes it is the only thing that stops me from giving him a big fat kaf! [smack]."
It's time to expand what tolerance means
While the responses were enlightening, they also underscored why we do need a year-long initiative on the topic. It will ultimately allow those of us in this country to explore and understand the many other underappreciated facets of tolerance.
Most people I speak to only view it through the prism of dealing with negative behaviours, and they see tolerance as a passive activity that is all about withstanding something unfavourable.
That was how I was first introduced to the concept, when it was hammered into me during my short stint as a security guard in Australia nearly two decades ago. During our month-long training course we learnt skills on how to manage the psychology of the most abusive and belligerent members of the public.
But, the more I grew up, travelled and accumulated experiences, I began to learn that there is more to tolerance than taking a deep breath and counting to 10.
The UAE is a breeding ground for tolerance
I actually have the UAE, and my home city of Abu Dhabi, to thank for that. Over the eight years that I have called the capital home, I have unknowingly strengthened and expanded my concept of tolerance. Residing in the UAE, with its eclectic cultural mix and the subsequent varied approaches to work and life, the country is indeed the ultimate tolerance gym, to use my mate Ahmed's term.
Each day we interact with other members of the workforce here, we face a minefield of different viewpoints – from the cultural to the generational – on how to approach both professional and personal aspects of our lives. Navigating that landscape successfully – through clear communication, maintaining a sanguine personality and holding a healthy dose of patience – is what tolerance is about.
Experiencing art strengthens our tolerance
Another aspect of living in Abu Dhabi which has strengthened my tolerance levels is my exposure to international art. Whether it is at the magnificent Louvre Abu Dhabi, the international concerts at the NYU Abu Dhabi Arts Centre or the upcoming month-long cultural extravaganza, Abu Dhabi Festival (in March), we are offered some of the best performances and exhibitions from the world, right here on our doorstep.
Each of these illustrate the rich heritage of other nations and, whether having our emotions stirred by the voice of Iraqi maqam singer Farida Mohammad Ali last year at Umm Al Emarat Park, or dancing along joyfully to Ethiopian dance troupe Fendika at NYU Abu Dhabi, it illustrates the humanity and emotions we all share. These are indeed seeds that foster tolerance.
And, of course, we can't forget Ramadan, which will begin in early May this year – a time when tolerance takes on both a physical and spiritual dimension. We tolerate the daily pangs of hunger and actively seek out ways to give to charity and foster empathy for those who are less fortunate than ourselves. This is a tolerance that is more concerned with uniting people than merely accepting who they are.
I hope this year's activities celebrate all the shades of tolerance. As a concept, it may not sound cool or catchy, but it is the bedrock that all dynamic and cosmopolitan nations are built on. I look forward to more daily reminders of that as 2019 unfolds.
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Defined benefit and defined contribution schemes explained
Defined Benefit Plan (DB)
A defined benefit plan is where the benefit is defined by a formula, typically length of service to and salary at date of leaving.
Defined Contribution Plan (DC)
A defined contribution plan is where the benefit depends on the amount of money put into the plan for an employee, and how much investment return is earned on those contributions.
Ferrari 12Cilindri specs
Engine: naturally aspirated 6.5-liter V12
Power: 819hp
Torque: 678Nm at 7,250rpm
Price: From Dh1,700,000
Available: Now
Leaderboard
63 - Mike Lorenzo-Vera (FRA)
64 - Rory McIlroy (NIR)
66 - Jon Rahm (ESP)
67 - Tom Lewis (ENG), Tommy Fleetwood (ENG)
68 - Rafael Cabrera-Bello (ESP), Marcus Kinhult (SWE)
69 - Justin Rose (ENG), Thomas Detry (BEL), Francesco Molinari (ITA), Danny Willett (ENG), Li Haotong (CHN), Matthias Schwab (AUT)
THE BIO
Born: Mukalla, Yemen, 1979
Education: UAE University, Al Ain
Family: Married with two daughters: Asayel, 7, and Sara, 6
Favourite piece of music: Horse Dance by Naseer Shamma
Favourite book: Science and geology
Favourite place to travel to: Washington DC
Best advice you’ve ever been given: If you have a dream, you have to believe it, then you will see it.
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The specs
Engine: 2.0-litre 4cyl turbo
Power: 261hp at 5,500rpm
Torque: 405Nm at 1,750-3,500rpm
Transmission: 9-speed auto
Fuel consumption: 6.9L/100km
On sale: Now
Price: From Dh117,059
City's slump
L - Juventus, 2-0
D - C Palace, 2-2
W - N Forest, 3-0
L - Liverpool, 2-0
D - Feyenoord, 3-3
L - Tottenham, 4-0
L - Brighton, 2-1
L - Sporting, 4-1
L - Bournemouth, 2-1
L - Tottenham, 2-1
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About Krews
Founder: Ahmed Al Qubaisi
Based: Abu Dhabi
Founded: January 2019
Number of employees: 10
Sector: Technology/Social media
Funding to date: Estimated $300,000 from Hub71 in-kind support
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What can victims do?
Always use only regulated platforms
Stop all transactions and communication on suspicion
Save all evidence (screenshots, chat logs, transaction IDs)
Report to local authorities
Warn others to prevent further harm
Courtesy: Crystal Intelligence
World Cup warm-up fixtures
Friday, May 24:
- Pakistan v Afghanistan (Bristol)
- Sri Lanka v South Africa (Cardiff)
Saturday, May 25
- England v Australia (Southampton)
- India v New Zealand (The Oval, London)
Sunday, May 26
- South Africa v West Indies (Bristol)
- Pakistan v Bangladesh (Cardiff)
Monday, May 27
- Australia v Sri Lanka (Southampton)
- England v Afghanistan (The Oval, London)
Tuesday, May 28
- West Indies v New Zealand (Bristol)
- Bangladesh v India (Cardiff)
ESSENTIALS
The flights
Emirates flies from Dubai to Phnom Penh via Yangon from Dh2,700 return including taxes. Cambodia Bayon Airlines and Cambodia Angkor Air offer return flights from Phnom Penh to Siem Reap from Dh250 return including taxes. The flight takes about 45 minutes.
The hotels
Rooms at the Raffles Le Royal in Phnom Penh cost from $225 (Dh826) per night including taxes. Rooms at the Grand Hotel d'Angkor cost from $261 (Dh960) per night including taxes.
The tours
A cyclo architecture tour of Phnom Penh costs from $20 (Dh75) per person for about three hours, with Khmer Architecture Tours. Tailor-made tours of all of Cambodia, or sites like Angkor alone, can be arranged by About Asia Travel. Emirates Holidays also offers packages.
COMPANY PROFILE
Name: Kumulus Water
Started: 2021
Founders: Iheb Triki and Mohamed Ali Abid
Based: Tunisia
Sector: Water technology
Number of staff: 22
Investment raised: $4 million
Dust and sand storms compared
Sand storm
- Particle size: Larger, heavier sand grains
- Visibility: Often dramatic with thick "walls" of sand
- Duration: Short-lived, typically localised
- Travel distance: Limited
- Source: Open desert areas with strong winds
Dust storm
- Particle size: Much finer, lightweight particles
- Visibility: Hazy skies but less intense
- Duration: Can linger for days
- Travel distance: Long-range, up to thousands of kilometres
- Source: Can be carried from distant regions
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Moon Music
Artist: Coldplay
Label: Parlophone/Atlantic
Number of tracks: 10
Rating: 3/5
Some of Darwish's last words
"They see their tomorrows slipping out of their reach. And though it seems to them that everything outside this reality is heaven, yet they do not want to go to that heaven. They stay, because they are afflicted with hope." - Mahmoud Darwish, to attendees of the Palestine Festival of Literature, 2008
His life in brief: Born in a village near Galilee, he lived in exile for most of his life and started writing poetry after high school. He was arrested several times by Israel for what were deemed to be inciteful poems. Most of his work focused on the love and yearning for his homeland, and he was regarded the Palestinian poet of resistance. Over the course of his life, he published more than 30 poetry collections and books of prose, with his work translated into more than 20 languages. Many of his poems were set to music by Arab composers, most significantly Marcel Khalife. Darwish died on August 9, 2008 after undergoing heart surgery in the United States. He was later buried in Ramallah where a shrine was erected in his honour.
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Other must-tries
Tomato and walnut salad
A lesson in simple, seasonal eating. Wedges of tomato, chunks of cucumber, thinly sliced red onion, coriander or parsley leaves, and perhaps some fresh dill are drizzled with a crushed walnut and garlic dressing. Do consider yourself warned: if you eat this salad in Georgia during the summer months, the tomatoes will be so ripe and flavourful that every tomato you eat from that day forth will taste lacklustre in comparison.
Badrijani nigvzit
A delicious vegetarian snack or starter. It consists of thinly sliced, fried then cooled aubergine smothered with a thick and creamy walnut sauce and folded or rolled. Take note, even though it seems like you should be able to pick these morsels up with your hands, they’re not as durable as they look. A knife and fork is the way to go.
Pkhali
This healthy little dish (a nice antidote to the khachapuri) is usually made with steamed then chopped cabbage, spinach, beetroot or green beans, combined with walnuts, garlic and herbs to make a vegetable pâté or paste. The mix is then often formed into rounds, chilled in the fridge and topped with pomegranate seeds before being served.
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Seemar’s top six for the Dubai World Cup Carnival:
1. Reynaldothewizard
2. North America
3. Raven’s Corner
4. Hawkesbury
5. New Maharajah
6. Secret Ambition
The specs
Engine: 3.0-litre six-cylinder turbo
Power: 398hp from 5,250rpm
Torque: 580Nm at 1,900-4,800rpm
Transmission: Eight-speed auto
Fuel economy, combined: 6.5L/100km
On sale: December
Price: From Dh330,000 (estimate)
Killing of Qassem Suleimani
RESULTS
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How to increase your savings
- Have a plan for your savings.
- Decide on your emergency fund target and once that's achieved, assign your savings to another financial goal such as saving for a house or investing for retirement.
- Decide on a financial goal that is important to you and put your savings to work for you.
- It's important to have a purpose for your savings as it helps to keep you motivated to continue while also reducing the temptation to spend your savings.
- Carol Glynn, founder of Conscious Finance Coaching
UAE currency: the story behind the money in your pockets
Benefits of first-time home buyers' scheme
- Priority access to new homes from participating developers
- Discounts on sales price of off-plan units
- Flexible payment plans from developers
- Mortgages with better interest rates, faster approval times and reduced fees
- DLD registration fee can be paid through banks or credit cards at zero interest rates
Lexus LX700h specs
Engine: 3.4-litre twin-turbo V6 plus supplementary electric motor
Power: 464hp at 5,200rpm
Torque: 790Nm from 2,000-3,600rpm
Transmission: 10-speed auto
Fuel consumption: 11.7L/100km
On sale: Now
Price: From Dh590,000
Without Remorse
Directed by: Stefano Sollima
Starring: Michael B Jordan
4/5
Killing of Qassem Suleimani
