Aysha Albusmait is a single mum raising her two daughters Reem, 15, and Hussa, 9. Reem was only three-years-old, and Hussa just 40 days, when she became their foster mother.
As an Emirati foster mother, Ms Albusmait told The National there needs to be more awareness about what's involved with fostering children in the UAE, from starting the process to providing emotional support for foster parents.
When asked why she decided to foster children, Ms Albusmait takes a deep breath.
“I think the question to ask is why I didn’t foster them earlier. My life was incomplete without them. It was like a missing puzzle piece in my life,” she said.
“Today, my life is complete with Reem and Hussa. When you walk into my house, it is full of love and laughter. Their toys are strewn around, their books – the house is alive because of them.”
But she says there is also heartache that comes with being a foster mother.
“Nothing breaks my heart more than when I’m asked why the girls don’t look like me," she said. “Sometimes I say, ‘they look like their father’ or, ‘not all kids look like their parents'.”
The rules on fostering in the UAE
A foster couple or family must:
- be Muslim, Emirati and be residing in the UAE
- not be younger than 25 years old
- not have been convicted of offences or crimes involving moral turpitude
- be free of infectious diseases or psychological and mental disorders
- have the ability to support its members and the foster child financially
- undertake to treat and raise the child in a proper manner and take care of his or her health and well-being
- A single, divorced or widowed Muslim Emirati female, residing in the UAE may apply to foster a child if she is at least 30 years old and able to support the child financially
Calls for support
Ms Albusmait has also established a community support group bringing foster parents together from across the Arab world. The platform aims to correct misconceptions and provide information on fostering. Even so, she said it's important that more foster parents come forward to share their stories.
“They’re always afraid of society. For me, I want to talk about it because I know it will affect other people’s lives and encourage others to foster," she said. "There are many children out there who need a family and a safe home. This won’t just affect the child’s life – it will affect society."
She also spoke candidly on whether being foster children could lead to her daughters being bullied.
“When I asked my girls if they tell their friends they’re fostered, their response was: ‘This is the truth. Why should we hide it? Why should we be ashamed of it?’," she said. “In all religions – and in Islam – fostering is permissible and encouraged for the betterment of society,” she says. “But in Islam, adoption is not allowed, simply to avoid the mixing of lineages and bloodlines.”
She was also advocating for the creation of a dedicated non-profit organisation to support foster children, not financially, but emotionally.
“These children don’t just need a roof over their heads. They need stability, love, connection, and long-term emotional support,” she says. “We need a system that can support them beyond the home.”
Foster parents, she added, should be given the same rights as biological parents, including being entitled to parental leave.
'A gift from God'
Narjes Al Blooshi knows exactly what that kind of support foster parents need. She became a mother to Aisha when the girl was just two-months-old. Today, Aisha is seven – and couldn’t be happier.
“The day I got Aisha was the most wonderful day of my life. I felt like a mother coming home from the hospital with her newborn baby,” she said, adding that she even breastfed Aisha for a few months.
“She’s my baby – and she even looks like me,” she said proudly, adding that she reminds her daughter almost every day that she is beautiful and special. “She’s the most beautiful girl in the world. And if anyone asks her if she’s fostered, I’ve told her to say that she’s special.
"That’s exactly what Aisha did. On adoption day at her school, she stood up on stage and spoke about her journey – as a beautiful and special child – a gift from God. My daughter is beautiful, and it’s not her who should be proud. I’m the one who’s proud and blessed to be her mother,” added Ms Blooshi.
The difference between fostering and adopting
While adoption is not permitted in Islam, the UAE's law on the rights of children states that "a child who is deprived of his or her natural family, has the right to an alternative care through a foster family, or a public or private social welfare institution, if a foster family is not available".
While adoption typically establishes a legal parent-child relationship, fostering is a more limited and revocable arrangement, a legal expert explained.
“A foster child can be removed from the family under certain circumstances outlined by law. Adoption, however, does not grant authorities the same ability to terminate the relationship because it is considered a permanent parental bond, much like that between biological parents and their children,” said Diana Hamade, founder of UAE-based legal firm Attorneys at Law.
What it means to be a foster parent?
Ms Albusmait was eager to convey the joy of being a foster parent so other families would know what this journey really means.
“I’d really like parents to know that anyone who fosters a kid feels like their life has changed. It’s truly a blessing. Us foster parents can all confirm that. Our lives changed for the better after we fostered children," she said.
“Don’t listen to anyone who advises you not to foster. Fostering is for everyone with a good and sincere heart,” she says. “For me, it was like my life was in black and white – and now it’s in colour. We need people to understand what fostering really is and what it’s not. It’s not charity. It’s love. It’s a commitment. And it changes lives – not just the children’s, but yours too.”
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Stars: Dr Ghassan Abu-Sittah
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Company profile
Name: Infinite8
Based: Dubai
Launch year: 2017
Number of employees: 90
Sector: Online gaming industry
Funding: $1.2m from a UAE angel investor
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What can victims do?
Always use only regulated platforms
Stop all transactions and communication on suspicion
Save all evidence (screenshots, chat logs, transaction IDs)
Report to local authorities
Warn others to prevent further harm
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Sole survivors
- Cecelia Crocker was on board Northwest Airlines Flight 255 in 1987 when it crashed in Detroit, killing 154 people, including her parents and brother. The plane had hit a light pole on take off
- George Lamson Jr, from Minnesota, was on a Galaxy Airlines flight that crashed in Reno in 1985, killing 68 people. His entire seat was launched out of the plane
- Bahia Bakari, then 12, survived when a Yemenia Airways flight crashed near the Comoros in 2009, killing 152. She was found clinging to wreckage after floating in the ocean for 13 hours.
- Jim Polehinke was the co-pilot and sole survivor of a 2006 Comair flight that crashed in Lexington, Kentucky, killing 49.
What to watch out for:
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Several pillars more than 20 metres high will support the structure
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Starring: Jeremy Allen White, Odessa Young, Jeremy Strong
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Real estate tokenisation project
Dubai launched the pilot phase of its real estate tokenisation project last month.
The initiative focuses on converting real estate assets into digital tokens recorded on blockchain technology and helps in streamlining the process of buying, selling and investing, the Dubai Land Department said.
Dubai’s real estate tokenisation market is projected to reach Dh60 billion ($16.33 billion) by 2033, representing 7 per cent of the emirate’s total property transactions, according to the DLD.
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Who are the Sacklers?
The Sackler family is a transatlantic dynasty that owns Purdue Pharma, which manufactures and markets OxyContin, one of the drugs at the centre of America's opioids crisis. The family is well known for their generous philanthropy towards the world's top cultural institutions, including Guggenheim Museum, the National Portrait Gallery, Tate in Britain, Yale University and the Serpentine Gallery, to name a few. Two branches of the family control Purdue Pharma.
Isaac Sackler and Sophie Greenberg were Jewish immigrants who arrived in New York before the First World War. They had three sons. The first, Arthur, died before OxyContin was invented. The second, Mortimer, who died aged 93 in 2010, was a former chief executive of Purdue Pharma. The third, Raymond, died aged 97 in 2017 and was also a former chief executive of Purdue Pharma.
It was Arthur, a psychiatrist and pharmaceutical marketeer, who started the family business dynasty. He and his brothers bought a small company called Purdue Frederick; among their first products were laxatives and prescription earwax remover.
Arthur's branch of the family has not been involved in Purdue for many years and his daughter, Elizabeth, has spoken out against it, saying the company's role in America's drugs crisis is "morally abhorrent".
The lawsuits that were brought by the attorneys general of New York and Massachussetts named eight Sacklers. This includes Kathe, Mortimer, Richard, Jonathan and Ilene Sackler Lefcourt, who are all the children of either Mortimer or Raymond. Then there's Theresa Sackler, who is Mortimer senior's widow; Beverly, Raymond's widow; and David Sackler, Raymond's grandson.
Members of the Sackler family are rarely seen in public.
UAE SQUAD
Goalkeepers: Ali Khaseif, Fahad Al Dhanhani, Mohammed Al Shamsi, Adel Al Hosani
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Hometown: Dubai
City of birth: Thiruvilla, Kerala
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Farage on Muslim Brotherhood
Nigel Farage told Reform's annual conference that the party will proscribe the Muslim Brotherhood if he becomes Prime Minister.
"We will stop dangerous organisations with links to terrorism operating in our country," he said. "Quite why we've been so gutless about this – both Labour and Conservative – I don't know.
“All across the Middle East, countries have banned and proscribed the Muslim Brotherhood as a dangerous organisation. We will do the very same.”
It is 10 years since a ground-breaking report into the Muslim Brotherhood by Sir John Jenkins.
Among the former diplomat's findings was an assessment that “the use of extreme violence in the pursuit of the perfect Islamic society” has “never been institutionally disowned” by the movement.
The prime minister at the time, David Cameron, who commissioned the report, said membership or association with the Muslim Brotherhood was a "possible indicator of extremism" but it would not be banned.
The specs: 2019 BMW i8 Roadster
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Transmission: Six-speed automatic
Power: 374hp (total)
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Fuel economy, combined: 2.0L / 100km
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Uefa Champions League semi-finals, first leg
Liverpool v Roma
When: April 24, 10.45pm kick-off (UAE)
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The Disaster Artist
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Profile
Co-founders of the company: Vilhelm Hedberg and Ravi Bhusari
Launch year: In 2016 ekar launched and signed an agreement with Etihad Airways in Abu Dhabi. In January 2017 ekar launched in Dubai in a partnership with the RTA.
Number of employees: Over 50
Financing stage: Series B currently being finalised
Investors: Series A - Audacia Capital
Sector of operation: Transport
What the law says
Micro-retirement is not a recognised concept or employment status under Federal Decree Law No. 33 of 2021 on the Regulation of Labour Relations (as amended) (UAE Labour Law). As such, it reflects a voluntary work-life balance practice, rather than a recognised legal employment category, according to Dilini Loku, senior associate for law firm Gateley Middle East.
“Some companies may offer formal sabbatical policies or career break programmes; however, beyond such arrangements, there is no automatic right or statutory entitlement to extended breaks,” she explains.
“Any leave taken beyond statutory entitlements, such as annual leave, is typically regarded as unpaid leave in accordance with Article 33 of the UAE Labour Law. While employees may legally take unpaid leave, such requests are subject to the employer’s discretion and require approval.”
If an employee resigns to pursue micro-retirement, the employment contract is terminated, and the employer is under no legal obligation to rehire the employee in the future unless specific contractual agreements are in place (such as return-to-work arrangements), which are generally uncommon, Ms Loku adds.
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The rules on fostering in the UAE
A foster couple or family must:
- be Muslim, Emirati and be residing in the UAE
- not be younger than 25 years old
- not have been convicted of offences or crimes involving moral turpitude
- be free of infectious diseases or psychological and mental disorders
- have the ability to support its members and the foster child financially
- undertake to treat and raise the child in a proper manner and take care of his or her health and well-being
- A single, divorced or widowed Muslim Emirati female, residing in the UAE may apply to foster a child if she is at least 30 years old and able to support the child financially
